A little
darling commented about my chin fuzz saying she liked my “salt and pepper”
look. Why? Does the white in my beard suggest that I am a wise elder or, perhaps,
God-like? (All the pictures I see of God show Him pre-Grecian.) There’s a term
floating around for sexy, older men: Silver Fox. Hm. I don’t know. When I see one of
these men I think, There goes Blue Pill
Bill. Then, I realize Bill probably has the same impression of me.
It’s an
interesting distinction between men and women regarding hair color. When a
woman encounters a Silver Fox, she finds him sexy not because of his hair color, but in spite of it. Gray hair doesn’t
imply the man is unfit, physically or emotionally. It implies wisdom and maturity.
Put gray
hair on a woman and she’s not going to be sexy, no matter who she is. Funny
though—it’s not many shades away from the platinum blonde color that distracts
men and pushes women up the ten-point scale.
Hair
coloring is something completely acceptable and expected for women. Maybe that’s
part of the turnoff: If she allows her hair to gray naturally, she’s not
concerned about being attractive, so why should I be attracted? If men color
their hair, people see it as silly and vain (except for hair stylists and
hair product salespeople.)
“Have
you ever considered coloring your goatee?”
“Yes. In
fact, I actually bought the stuff once.”
“Did you
try it?”
“Nope. I
couldn’t bring myself to do it and deal with all the barbs. People would start
paying me compliments, which would cause me to lie: ‘Oh, you look great.
Something’s different.’ ‘Did you lose weight?’ ‘Is that a new shirt?’”
“Why
wouldn’t you just tell the truth and say you colored your hair?”
“Because
that would be seen as a display of low self-confidence and put me in an
indefensible position.”
“Not at
all.”
“Oh,
bullshit. You’d be kind and supportive, but you’d begin wondering if I’m
wearing Spanx and eyeliner.”
“Ha, ha.
Are you?”
“No, but
I am carrying a bratwurst in my pocket. Wanna see it?”
I hear
scientists have developed a pill that will turn our hair back to its original
color. OK, if everybody does it, fine. I’m sure the pill will have some
undesirable side effects. Maybe it will give men the desire to skateboard, play
acoustic guitar, and hang out around Apple stores. Great. I’ll have a pill that
helps me have sex with women I’m not attracted to, a pill that allows me to eat
food that’s not good for me, and a pill to override my reminder to avoid doing
things I’m too old to consider.
