tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049233740909140589.post9086717470462853519..comments2023-09-11T05:14:09.342-07:00Comments on Author Phil Torcivia's Blog: What does she really mean when she says …?Philhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18313864825189440922noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049233740909140589.post-43722209700828644112011-11-11T08:33:37.330-08:002011-11-11T08:33:37.330-08:00When I said "Go ahead and hang with the guys ...When I said "Go ahead and hang with the guys if you want." I actually meant it. However, when I wanted time to spend with my girlfriends I was often told "You had alone time when I was out with the guys on ____. Why didn't you go out then?" <br /><br />I do enjoy my alone time. I enjoy my girl time. I enjoy my time with my guy when I'm in a relationship. Unfortunately, I've yet to find a guy who didn't believe I should be able to adjust the schedule of my world and that of my friends to suit his needs. I'm sure many men will say the same of their partners. <br /><br />For every confusing bitch trait assigned to a woman you can assign a thoughtless oaf trait to a man. Isn't it amazing that we ever end up married?Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04663812073515798267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049233740909140589.post-27931974934022291052011-11-10T08:14:00.318-08:002011-11-10T08:14:00.318-08:00The picture you put with this is priceless!The picture you put with this is priceless!WyomingDivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347884469260061872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049233740909140589.post-1923590833035300472011-11-09T14:38:37.331-08:002011-11-09T14:38:37.331-08:00Women do this because if we get mad we are called ...Women do this because if we get mad we are called a bitch or a nag and otherwise ridiculed for having gotten upset or mad. So we get mad quietly, withhold sex but eventually it will all blow up. <br /><br />I've never understood why men do stupid shit and then get wounded, offended and critical when we get mad at the stupid shit they've done. Hardly seems fair!Michael Vannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01097380575105003662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049233740909140589.post-21346113808998857332011-11-09T14:05:40.717-08:002011-11-09T14:05:40.717-08:00You have an excellent grasp of female communicatio...You have an excellent grasp of female communication. <br /><br />I don't know why women do this. The only reason I can think of is because we want our men to KNOW they should be coming home and do the right thing without needing to be told. <br /><br />Unfortunately many men don't appear to take this point of view, as the few times I tried to skip the 'nothing's wrong' conversation and tell him what was actually wrong, it just ended in an argument about how unreasonable I was being for not letting him see his mates and have some down time. <br /><br />In some things, the chasm between men and women is light years wide I think. <br /><br />Maybe women play these games because if we don't TELL him what's wrong and hear his godawful answer we can continue to delude ourselves into believing that men are something they are not. For our sanity. <br /><br />Note: In saying this I do acknowledge there are exceptions to EVERY rule and I'm not saying all men are the same.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18436989031700445050noreply@blogger.com